Dear Katrine Nielsen:

I am sorry, Katrine. I know how much it hurts to be left out. I experienced it many, many times and it does really hurt. I mentioned analysis-paralysis before, and this is what happens when our lives happen almost exclusively in-between-our-ears, thinking and thinking.. and thinking some more about what to say and what to do… but saying and doing nothing: we end up being left out while other people end up where we wish we were.

Not that the guy and your friends live a healthy life. They may be thinking too little, acting impulsive, getting drunk..  Key is to find a balance between thinking too much and thinking too little; between no action and impulsive action: the middle ground will lead you to a better life!

anita