Dear D:

You are welcome. I quickly read your response and I would like to reply further when I return to the computer today, if I am focused enough (if not, then I will reply again tomorrow).  For now, it seems to me that it would be a good idea for you to move out of LA even though it will make your grandson sad because (1) he is spending significantly less time with you now that he is in pre-K than he used to earlier, (2) your daughter and son-in-law have “a good network” in LA, so there are other people there for your grandson, as well as the new people in pre-K, (3) with today’s technology, it is possible for yu to communicate with your grandson virtually, if  you and him feel comfortable doing so.

anita