Dear Sara:

I would like to reply further tomorrow, but for now, it seems like your boyfriend is a decent guy, it’s just that he is not perfect. But then, no one is perfect. All of us people suffer from anxiety, to one extent or another, and we all make mistakes (more when anxious). When I learned to no longer be alarmed by imperfections in others, and instead, to accept and expect it .. from myself and from others, I experienced more peace within myself and in relationships with others.

anita