Thank you very much Anita, what a kind wish to read in my inbox this morning!  I wish you the same joy!

As an update for you and all future lurkers to this thread :), I am happy to say that the friend turned out to be extremely busy with her work, career, schooling, and family. She naturally detached from the friendgroup without any intervention. I personally believe that God/Spirit/etc willed her to withdraw from us to focus on her own life, and this is what I believe is best for herself and everyone. I am glad I did not choose to intervene and gave her space as needed.

Merry Christmas and/or Happy Holidays to you too! May warmth and coziness be near you those days and always!