Dear Farnaz:

“Honestly it triggers me that we are still talking about him“- I don’t want to negatively trigger you anymore, but I need to be very clear about what kinds of talk triggers you, otherwise, I will be walking on egg shells. So far, you asked me to not talk about Politics, Money and this Man.

In regard to money, you asked to not talk about it, but later, you mentioned that doctors in Iran making little money and I responded with the idea that nurses in the U.S. make a lot money. After I mentioned the latter, I was worried that I broke my promise to you in regard to not talking about money. So I went back and saw that you were the one to mention how much money doctors in Iran earn. Moving forward: what’s your policy in regard to talking about money?

In regard to politics and to this man, what do I do if you bring either topic up? Ignore it?

Are there any other topics that trigger you? If there are, please be specific about what they are, in what context etc., whatever I need to know so to not trigger you.

I will reply to the rest of your earlier post after I submit this post.

anita