Dear Swanky:

You wrote that in your country, “Same sex relationship is forbidden“- is it dangerous (ex., physical violence) or illegal (consequence: jail time) to have same sex relationships in your country?

If it is not dangerous for you to have this conversation with your boss, then f she asks you: are you into girls? answer: yes. Answer factually and respectfully (not in a flirtatious way). Think of it as a fact-finding mission: finding out each other’s romantic-sexual orientation.

anita