Hi Helcat,

That’s a good summary of the situation.

Though I can honestly say I don’t know what I need to do. When you say “are you ready to do that yet or do you need more time to process”, do you mean heal fully and accept relationship won’t happen and meet her as friends to see how things evolve, or do you mean walk away forever and wish her well?

Those are the two options I feel (or is there a better third option that I’m missing) and I’m at a complete loss as to what to do.