Dear Gay:

You are very welcome. “Am wondering why he is in a matrimonial site awaiting divorce and proposing marriage to other women when his divorce is dragging for long“- it looks like his reason is that he wants to communicate with women online, in a romantic context, while going through a divorce (if he is going through a divorce).

“I think I have some soul connection with him and I want to be part of his life so I can help him… somewhere I have developed some attachment to him. I believe I can take care of him well and have lot of sympathy for him“- this soul connection that you feel, your wanting to take care of him well.. this is a beautiful part of yourself.

“Do you think he is worth my time?“-  no, I don’t think that he is worth your time or that he is worth this beautiful part of yourself, which I mentioned right above.

“I had only arranged marriages. I don’t do dating” – maybe it’s time for cautious and wise dating?

anita