Hi Lily Margarette

I’m sorry to hear that you are in an abusive relationship. It sounds like you are kind of done with the relationship and getting to the point of considering how to leave it. Would you agree?

It sounds like what he wants is to schedule some time to himself which is a fair ask. However, his behaviour isn’t fair. I would schedule some time for himself on a different day that suits you both. It is really difficult to schedule time for yourself with children and both parents working.

It sounds like the individual therapy has identified problems that he sees in the relationship. So he feels validated in how he is behaving.

Wishing you all the best! ❤️🙏