[quote quote=434393] as I understand it, she distanced herself from you, not the other way around. She initiated the distancing over and over again, through a long period of time, before you reacted to her initiative by.. not chasing her for closeness. Does this make sense to you? anita[/quote]

Hi Anita,

Yes, I am definitely sad about the lost closeness.

I feel like what we have know is

[quote quote=434393] as I understand it, she distanced herself from you, not the other way around. She initiated the distancing over and over again, through a long period of time, before you reacted to her initiative by.. not chasing her for closeness. Does this make sense to you? anita[/quote]

This is more realistic and also supported by the facts, as some of my texts never got any reply and she started to take more time to reply.

Thank you for the reminder ! 🙂

Indeed, I probably tend to gaslight myself in order to alleviate the pain.