Dear Helcat,

“It is very kind of you to rewrite a message because it was in moderation. Thank you for your efforts! “

Thank you for reading and helping me.

“Ah so there was a reason for the visit with your friend so it doesn’t hurt as much.”

Exactly !

Thank you for your compassion.

Yes, it has been hard but I feel like I am handling things better now because I don’t hurt as much as in the beginning.

The pain often fluctuates and is intertwined with genuine happiness when I interact with my new friends and throw myself into new hobbies !

I am so sorry that your friendship had to end, it’s very painful when things become one-sided ! I am happy that you had some closure and I hope you this friendship breakup does not affect you in a negative way anymore !

“Do you feel nervous about sending the message because it might end the relationship? Quite a high chance in the scenarios mentioned by Anita.”

Yes, I feel very anxious and I am reminded of the fact that I somewhat shared my feelings with her in February, even though it was in an indirect way.

Plus, I am currently in a good mood because I am going to a few events in the following days with my new friends. So in a way, I am scared that sending this text will send me back in a dark place.

But don’t worry, I know it’s unhealthy to think like this because even though I feel good at the moment, the problem remains unsolved and my feelings haven’t been heard, at least not like the message I wrote here.

“If you are looking for a potentially more positive outcome vulnerability can be good as people respond to it positively. It might look something like.”

Thank you so much, it’s an amazing suggestion !

I will think about it !