Hi Anita,

Thanks for your reply.

You asked
I wonder if your interest in dating (having sex with) women of different ethnic backgrounds has to do with having watched porn involving women of different ethnic backgrounds?
I don’t believe it’s only because of porn, but I worked in more cosmopolitan cities where I encountered many different ethnicities of women. I was hesitant and shy to even ask them out at that time.

Your high sex drive needs a real person to touch and be sexual with, so clearly, something (a real person) is missing.
Yes, I know I’m craving that because, with online relationships, it’s mostly talking about things like kissing, cuddling, and even sexting , so lots of imagination but not actual physical touch.

And yes, I’m aware of the cons of porn. In fact, for two nights in a row, I went to bed without porn or sexting. That’s why I want to quit, because I know porn is making my craving for physical touch much higher.