Hi Laven

It’s good to hear that your fm recovered well. I hope that the surgery helps her to feel a bit better, despite not really wanting it.

I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed your taste of freedom! And sorry to hear about how much pain you are in.

I don’t like how you are treat by the family. I thought it was really disgusting that you were expected to stay home and be excluded from the process at the hospital when you are the person who cares most about her, taking care of her every day!

My informal adopted family treat me similarly bad mouthing me and by excluding me from things like Christmas. I don’t have much to do with them because of it.

I’m sorry that they started talking badly about you in the group chat. They’re genuinely awful people, it’s terrible that you have to deal with them.

I’m sorry that your cycle of health care related anxiety continues. You’re right it is really hard taking care of people, especially when they don’t want to take care of themselves. You are doing your best though and it sounds like you have a good balance of empathy for her situation and her feelings and an understanding of your responsibilities.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏