Hi me

I’m so sorry to hear about your father’s terminal cancer, that your aunt passed away recently and your father’s friend also has cancer.

It’s very kind of you to take such good care of your father. It is not an easy thing to do though.

You are dealing with so much right now, no wonder you freaked out at work.

Is it possible for you to take some time off work? It is pretty common for people caring for loved ones with terminal conditions to do so.

Sometimes things get to a point where it is simply unsafe for family to provide care and specialists are required. In one way it feels bad for a family member to go to hospice, in another way it can be helpful because it is very hard for one person to provide all of that care. It provides the ability to focus on quality time. Then again, everyone is different and has different circumstances.

I hope that you have a nice holiday. It must be hard with this situation ongoing.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏