Shellie,

Perhaps because you have a beautiful heart, and your love is is like a warm blanket. The more interesting question, why do they deserve your attention? Said differently, dogs bark in some neighborhood yard, but that’s not your home. They reach out for you, but its your choice to question and ponder why. Why even give them even that much attention? Don’t you have your own dreams to build? Things that your heart wishes you to grow?

Focus on that, and let them call after you as they eat your dust. They only have the power you give them, so if you want them out of your space, just ignore their petty backdoor approaches… just breathe, move on, and get back to your dancing.

If there’s a part of you that likes the attention, wants it… perhaps a little digging there would help. Perhaps “why do I pour my affections to unavailable men?” or “what am I hoping to find in their actions?” Could be some self esteem, lack of faith in love, any number of things drawing your attention toward them. What does it feel like?

Namaste, may your mind settle and your heart open its wisdom.

With warmth,
Matt