Hey Val!

I am a man and know that sometimes, stupid stupid men don’t always understand the position they put others in especially when it comes to the female counter parts!It doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you!

But just so you know… one of the absolutely more attractive thing about any women is her wisdom and compassion, being 55 is only going to give you an advantage when seeking want you want and deserve and if he does not see that then someone else will!

Im sorry I do not have the female touch and knowing of what to say, but boys will be boys, its kinda like telling them not to do something, they do it more, the more you reach out the more he might push away. IM not sure of the answer to this enigma, but I do not, the stronger you are, the BETTER YOU WILL BE, and you may or may not grab his attention! ……. the real question is if he deserves it! 🙂

One of the absolute best things I would do is get a pad of paper, a pen, your favourite food and start writing… not necessarily about him (although it might come up) but about your past, your present, and a future that has bright colours!

Stay Strong, Beautiful and Young at Heart!

Sincerely,

1 of a very large group of decent guys 🙂

Ps… also try listening to classical music… Beethoven is good… YO YO Ma Cello suites on Youtube is my personal favourite and Paint!