Hi Molly,

You haven’t even said if you want to be friends with this person? It’s hard to become friends with an EX as deep down there will always be some connection to that person in a level that exceeds basic friendship.

I think that we can have civil relations with our EX partners but it’s very difficult to become close with them without one person getting hurt.

You should think about what you want. You need to put your own needs first. We can only look out for ourselves in these situations.

If you feel like you want that friendship then maybe you should reach out, but do it for you not for them.