I think guys ignore because it is less overwhelming than to admit to emotions. Culturally we do not allow our men to be loving and kind…not really. We Want that, we say we Need it that way but when he cries to us we reject him as not manly enough. This is said as an abstract thought…the hidden meaning of a guy’s actions. I analyze that he got into a sentimental moment with you that he regrets. He cannot bear to face being the one to hurt you again…he truly never wanted to hurt you. He just can’t face himself and does not have the capacity to face you. Plz do not ask someone with an IQ of 60 to do rocket science. He doesn’t have the “EQ” to just say goodbye. He needs you to figure out that when he gives you the slip, he doesn’t want to talk to you. Plain and simple. Let him go. He has lots and lots of work to do. Do you have 5-10years to devote to this as he morphs into a really good guy? Personally. I do not have that time. Best of luck.