My goodness..how do you put up with that kind of bullshit in the name of love? And why the hell are you tolerating his unfaithfulness? Seriously, do you have no self-respect? You call this love? You think this man respects your needs? He cheats on you – says a hooker and a cleaning lady would be cheaper option than you and you put up with that kind of nonsense? Unacceptable. He doesnt respect you and you have zero respect for yourself. Are you happy with this person? Do you like the way your personal boundaries are being violated like this? This is emotional abuse love and you just cant seem to see it. Couples fight and disagree but they dont disrespect eachother like this. Are you so scared that you will never find a guy to love you that you will put with this asshole in the name of love? I am sorry for the rather extreme views but i have no tolerance for this kind of audacity. Isnt your life important? Arent your needs important too? Of course they are! You deserve to be loved, cherised and treated with respect – dont let this man destroy you.

Go see a therapist please. This relationship is giving me too many red flag feelings.