TZ,

Sometimes it helps the heart to heal when we can accept that we loved our best. Consider that it usually comes up as “I loved him, love him”, but perhaps he was only a teacher, someone that helped you to open your heart. Its really relieving when we find some acceptance that more important than “we loved him” or “we love him” is the plain fact “we love”.

That’s where all the magic is, that’s what pushes us to heal, toward happiness (long term and today’s), and countless other wonders. Maybe a start to that silver lining list? 🙂

Namaste, sister, may your healing be patient and tender.

With warmth,
Matt