Yes I know what you are saying LOL it is currently sitting simmering with us both as I have mentioned to him of the lack of intimacy and asked was I doing something wrong. I felt if I mentioned that it was perhaps something I was doing wrong he would be more comfortable to talk about it, as I know it is a very touchy subject!!

Well we will see where it goes from here and if there are any improvements in that department. If not I have decided to sit him down and ask him outright about it. Not nice and very bloody confusing. 🙂