Hi Misha.

I know it can be hard to deal with our insecurities at times. I think we all have insecurities -especially us girls- but deal with them differently. Whenever you feel like you are not good enough, just remember this: Your boyfriend is with YOU for a reason. You are perfect TO him and FOR him. He LOVES you for who YOU are. If you were different, he wouldn’t have been so attracted to you, your personality and your looks on the first place. He loves your qualities and your flaws. He accepts you just as you are. He wants to be with you and no one else. The person that you are is what makes him happy.

You said, “I just want to be perfect I want to be this person that I am not and I guess no one can be perfect but if Im not perfect why would he want a future with me”.

What is your definition of “perfect”? There is no such thing as perfection – we are all a work in progress and that is what makes us beautiful. Misha, do not be too hard on yourself. Your boyfriend said it himself, he WANTS to help you, which means he IS and WILL BE there for you, no matter what. He is ready to take this journey with you. It is a way for him to show you how much he loves you.

And now, do not feel guilty about what happened – it belongs to the past. All you have to do now is learn from what you have experienced. Keep your goals in mind, repeat to yourself that you are beautiful and perfect and enough, and that your boyfriend LOVES YOU.