Hello @Michael!
For starters, I am truly sorry that someone had to resort to being harsh with you and to hurt you. One of the main reasons why I do not reach out to my ex is because he already told me what I had to hear. I know that if I contact him I am only exposing myself to more hurtful words and BS. I know that I am a good person and I know that I gave it my all, at the end of the day he had already made up his mind about not wanting to be with me so there was nothing I could do. And why would I even want to do more for someone who did not open up or appreciate me as a person? I am still recovering and I am still “under construction,” but I am finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. As for her telling you that you never made her happy, well that just sounds like someone who has chronic dissatisfaction and you have to know that you should be able to make yourself happy and to surround yourself with happy and positive people. Remind yourself that you, more than anyone else you know, deserves to be happy.