Hi Uju,

I had something similar occur to me a few years ago with the online dating thing, I had decided to take matters into my own hands and go visit this person because I had been to his home and everything. When I arrived another woman opened the door….

I’m not saying that all online dating experiences will end negatively but I think you should just move on. If he likes you as much as he says he does he wouldnt be ignoring you right? Plus, for some reason people seem to be living vicariously in terms of any online “realtionships” or “emotions” its not to say that your feelings or his werent real…people just tend not to see how much a person can come to like the one on the other side of the screen…the weight of it doesnt register.

You’d be doing yourself a favour by not messaging him or emailing him anymore. I know how hard that must be but You are preventing yourself from opportunities that are better for you. If when you stop trying to reach him he messages you, kindly ask for an explanation and consider whether or not he is worth your time. Remember, your happiness and how true you are to yourself are all that really matters.

Cheers. 🙂