Caring guy,

It sounds more like you want too much from her, with her. She wants a meal with you, you want a lifetime together with lots of sex and babies and snuggling. Pull it back brother. Stop reaching toward gifts that aren’t yours, not here, not now.

Consider redirecting your thought energy toward kindness. “May whatever happens today bring us happiness. May she find joy and peace in her life. May I find joy and peace in my life. May we both feel freedom.”

Good luck on your first date!

With warmth,
Matt