Hey Kelsi! The word “calling” seems to imply a path in life that has been predetermined for you by destiny, fate, or God. The truth is, we decide for ourselves what path we take in life and your career choice is no exception.

The thoughts and opinions of well-meaning family and friends are important because you care about these people and you know they have your best interest at heart. But ultimately, the only one who has to live with the decisions you make in life is you.

I am a firm believer that the best career choice for anyone is one that reflects both what you’re good at and what you enjoy doing. If you can’t see yourself doing something for 20 years, chances are it’s not the right choice for you. Maybe you should take some time to evaluate what you are really good at and whether or not you truly enjoy doing it.

If you cannot answer these two questions, maybe you should start looking for ways to turn something you enjoy doing into a business idea. Many successful businesses get started by people who don’t fit into comfortably into any of the current career niches.