Matt,
He lives with his wife but his two sons live abroad . So yes maybe you are right when you say he’s lonely and he wants to be close to us. But don’t you think this is a very ineffective way of doing so? I’ve never told him about how his presence affects my family but in all honesty i think he should’ve realised it seeing our lack of interest in having a conversation him i.e about his poky questions. Thats the problem.. i think he does this on purpose.

Matt Wow!! Your words are so inspiring!! 😀 Right now i was quite agitated about this but after reading what you have written, i could actually feel myself calming down.. its such a wonderful feeling really!! 😀 I don’t think there is any better example than the one you just gave( about the cat). Wow! I never really thought it that way..

MAtt, I apologise if I’m extending this conversation way too long.. but if i try making him feel welcome, i’m afraid he would take advantage of it and become more of an intruder. We all show him a LOT of respect, we talk to him with great care, i even run down to him if i see him at the other end of the road.. but only to be answering his poky ques.

But Matt I couldn’t agree more with you.. I am acting like a victim.. you are right! Thanks for showing me the light!!
Thanks a ton!!!! 🙂 I am incredibly grateful.

May God bless us all

With the greatest regards,
Parth