Something to consider, from A Course in Miracles:

“Nobody can treat you unkindly. They can treat themselves unkindly by choosing the unkind ego as their teacher. But they can’t treat you unkindly. Whatever they do has nothing to do with you. They treat themselves unkindly. And if you’re also coming from an unkind thought, you will perceive them as treating you unkindly.” You do not know that he is happy. If he has behaved in the manner you described, I suspect he is not truly happy. But that’s none of your concern.

Focus on you. What do you want for your life? What are your goals? If attending college out of state is something that appeals to you, what can you do to work toward that and make it happen in your life?