No problem Alma,

Think about someone you consider to be a good person. If you discovered they’d made a mistake (or two), similar to your mistake let’s just say, would you automatically consider them a bad person? I bet you wouldn’t. In other words, mistakes do not necessarily mean ‘bad person’.

Most people want to be good people so you’re not alone on that one. The very fact that you responded as you did when your FB friend mentioned that he sometimes felt there was no point to life, shows signs of a person who cares about others wellbeing (yes, it could possibly have been manipulation to get you to hand over your number but that’s beside the point).

And then, you let him know you would not start a relationship with him because you’re already with someone. That’s something to be proud of.

It’s just unfortunate things went the way they did. Sounds like a open, calm talk between both of you will be required.

Lastly, work on forgiving yourself for your actions. 🙂