thank you Gabi, That helps me also.
Kingmaker, I feel also with you. i am in a similar situation, i have turned a control-freak by checking his facebook acoount when he was lat time online. I think it is so embrassing what i am doing and i decided to be brave and let him go. This is not my first decision i hope i can do it this time. You can also do that my friend because they are moving on why cant we? If you like we can motivate each other during this time??