Hey Matt,

No, both times I complimented her wasn’t about her appearance. Personally, I would find it to be difficult to be attracted to someone who has nothing to offer but a pretty face. It was about her personality the second time when I complimented her.

I can’t let this bother me because you can’t know what people are thinking. It possible that she thought about things differently when she left, I don’t know. I do know that it’s different than when I dated before. The other person and myself will have more responsibilities and less time. I guess there are lots of women out there. She just really struck a chord with me. It felt right. Maybe it still will with her. I’ll try to be patient.

I went on the dating site again to check if anyone who messaged me today and it shows if people are online. The woman I met was online. I know that we have nothing right now, but she doesn’t respond to me, and she is online. It kind of just gives you mixed signals.
If I felt that I could maybe work at something with her. I would be off of there immediately. I like to focus on one person, not a bunch of them. It’s confusing.