Hi Zee
I am sad to hear about about what happen
I had depression myself in the past and even attempted suicide 20 years ago. I also broke up with my ex girlfriend 6 days ago so I can understand and empathize with your pains, worries and struggles.
He is now struggling, what ever he say or do is not from deep down inside his heart. Even though he might not touch you sexually, that does not mean that he do not love you.
When I was depressed, I am not even physically excited even if a hot sexy lady were to stand in front of me.
I encourage you to look deeper inside him and feel (empathise) with his suffering.
Be the one that stand beside him when he is down, be the comfort of his heart (and not just physical), be the candle that shine when his days seems dark for him. Be the one that smile when he is crying. Be there for him.

It is not just only time that heal, but you being his pillar of support, his love and being his light (in his darkness) that will heal!

Let your love be for him be more and more complete!

Let us know how it goes

Praying for you guys always

Howard