Hello dear,

You may want to consider why you are involved with someone who is depressed and bipolar. You deserve better, this is mental illness and it will never really be a healthy relationship. There are other people who are more worthy of your time and energy. Please think about what kind of person you want to be with. Start to look at your own desires…what is your ideal man? If you become clear what you want, you can then see that he isn’t meeting your expectations. Not the other way around. Empower yourself.

You don’t have to spend time waiting for him to get it together. You do have more capacity to love yourself and to explore your own desire for a happy life.

Depression is serious and often people don’t want to come out of it, they like the attention they get from being sick.

Hope this helps.

Monica
resurrectedmind.com