Dear Emily,

Its been just 4 months and he has already displayed quite a bit of unprofessional behavior. I think you do have compassion for him but does he have any passion to even do his job well? Would your family and husband be happy with sloppy work? Are you happy with his work? I dont really see why the need to make everyone happy is being dragged in here. A business needs tough and fair calls. You are the employer after all. If understanding was the only factor involved, anyone could be hired. You hired him for a reason – to do his job well and help you business. Think calmly and you will know what to do best.

Regards
Moon