“He said that he never told me to take mine off and he never tells me what I can do or not.”

“I don’t listen to him and to his advices, that this is a lack of respect that I never want to try what he sais”

Sounds like he is sending you mixed messages. I think you need to find out where he’s really coming from. He wants you to take his advice (which sounds more like his commands), yet he justifies keeping his profile on a dating site by claiming he’s fine if you do the same. It sounds like you two have very different expectations from one another.

I would be concerned.