Hi Kim,

I think Regina’s thoughts are very valid.
I also think you’re on the right track…it’s just that the track is a bit longer than you thought.
However, it’s good to see that you’ve learnt from all your past decisions and that’s a great thing…not something to lament.
That’s what life is about…learning from our mistakes and from our successes, although wouldn’t it be nice to have less of the first?
My unconditional self acceptance came late in life and, funnily enough, came as a result of some fairly difficult times…which is when we seem to have our greatest breakthroughs. Like you, I knew I needed to achieve it, but, in the end, I had to wait till the right trigger came along. So, I guess patience is an important element in all this. I think your head’s in the right lace…you just have to wait till the right trigger comes along…and it will.