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Luna, The Best Thing i can say Is that Relationships are not just the answer . You must succeed in both your career and your relationships . Otherwise If you have one and not the other , You will be disatisfied in atleast one department And This failure might affect the other . Because suppose You have problems in your home or with parents , it might affect Your academic studies etc . However , The good thing is you dont need to be the most successful person in the world to be happy . Atleast a medium success works . Also , Wanting Relationships is not an excuse to keep on pondering or worrying over not having them , Cause You cant make force some people to love You And Majority of the times in life , You will be alone and make decisions alone .
My Best advice is to not let Necessity of wanting a relationship affect Your academics . Your academics will be over soon , and after that You still Have about 3/4 th of Your life left To attempt to start a relationship and to progress the relationship . 🙂
Remember : The best relationships come naturally and automatically and not forced .
Fret not over not feeling a part of a something . Everything will come in due time . Studies and enjoyment are both important . Cause Only an emotionally stable mind can concentrate in studies . So leave aside a part of your life for Enjoying , whether it be sports or music or movies or club , whatever .
Most importantly , Be caLm .