Hi, Vhanon,
I’ve just realized that my post I sent few hours ago, wasn’t published, probably because of the link it contains. I wanted to show you an article about soul mates and relationships with them.

Im so thankful for your concern, you support me a lot and I feel like I start to see things more clear. Thank you a lot for this new for me point of view in your last message, Im definitely not in the right position to help, I was thinking about it sometimes, I feel Im not his friend, he sees me more like his mother. But its not the role I would like to have with a partner. Im not trying to be a mother, Im trying to be independent in my own life. When your boyfriend has problems with alcohol and doesn’t have any job, well it affects your life as well. And I don’t like it. I wouldn’t want to drop it so I try to change it, And I try to help in ways I can.

Im feeling lost in my emotions, in all what’s happening but probably the most obvious way is the right way?
I can’t solve someone’s problems if they don’t want it. Or if they don’t know what they want.

I know he is not bad, he is very talented and has amazing potential, so probably hardest point is to accept that things won’t be the way they could, in the reality things are not magical, you can’t probably solve problems with sending love and hoping, it gets much more complicated.

It’s just hard to let it go because connection we had seemed to be very unique, now I won’t dare to say it’s still same but it was. And it’s precious.

Thank you for your interest in this problem, thank you for being here for me! I loved getting your comments! 🙂

Namaste

• This reply was modified 10 years, 1 month ago by Kath.
• This reply was modified 10 years, 1 month ago by Kath.