Hi Kaushambi. You are right coz kuch log hote hai those who are interested in pulling us down. They are always busy in proving their superiority by discarding your views. There is a sense of insecurity which prevents them to aprreciate someone else. In this process, they try to hide their weakness by either losing their temper or becoming bossy. It is okay to command your own voice in such a manner that other person don’t tresspass your peaceful zone.
As a friend, I would suggest that follow what your heart says. “Suno sabki but karo apni”. Dont think too much when someone says something to you (like your friend said you pushover). Its her opinion and you can’t stop her also, but its upon you only whether to embrace it or discard it.
Wishing you a great life ahead.