Hey @strivingforsuccess ,

I just want you to know that all of us have the inner strength to overcome any obstacles as long as we believe that we can.

I was supposed to get married end November this year but I called off the entire engagement and wedding. It wasn’t because the love wasn’t there between both of us but it wasn’t deep and strong enough. It wasn’t the most pleasant scenario to have a fiance who allows his mother to run the show. It was the most painful and hardest decision of my life thus far but hey, better now than after marriage and kids right? 🙂

So, I’m healing. Taking this time to do the things I want to do. Read, pray, chant, eat, daze…anything. Basically, anything that makes you feel content and appreciate the present. Because, every second is going to be a past.

Sometimes, we don’t need to be happy all the time. We can learn to be neutral too. No happiness, no sadness. Just serenity and contentment at work. It feels nice. Sit with the pain, hurt, grieve…it is ok. It will guide you to be a more positive person. 🙂

姻缘是天定。有缘千里来相会，无缘对面不相逢。
Marriage fate is up to the heavenly decision. No distance can prevent the couple from being together. If a couple is not meant to be, they can be beside each other but never meet.

I believe in fate and destiny. So, while we wait for our paths to cross with our “The Ones”, let’s grow ourselves with all the positive vibes. Who knows, it may accelerate the process because we are too attractive. 😀

Cheers my dear. -huggs!-