Everyone is selfish when they’re in the initial “headrush” stages of love, Cindy. Please understand that yes, you played a part in what happened to Tim and his wife, but it was only a PART. They played their part too. And given the state of their marriage, if it hadn’t been you Tim cheated with, it probably would’ve been someone else.

Tim and his wife are responsible for their own lives and their own happiness from here on in. You are responsible for yours.