Dear Subs,

Both of you are surely wonderful people but do you really think its worth it? Changing your basic nature, affecting your career, being away from loved ones all in the name of being with the guy you feel is “the one”? I understand marriage involves compromise but where are the limits? Who decides these limits? Both of you do but are you actually listening to yourself? I have been with someone for about more than half a decade and i was pretty young (too young), did everything i could until i snapped. When i let him go and decided never to look back, i thought i would never find “the one” again.

Now i am with a wonderful man again for the last 1.5 years. I feel like he’s the one but heck, no matter how much i love him, after years of depression and plain foolishness at times, i have concluded – “I love you but i love me more”

He cant complete you, no one can but does that mean you have to revamp your life to complete the relationship? Think about it. All the best dear.

– Moon