I can imagine that the decision is very hard. The thing is: If you are not completely excited to move to his city, and 100% willing to take the risk, than it’s probably not a good idea. I don’t know if there is any other way to give this relationship a chance (or if that is a good idea either), but the moving part sets you up for massive regrets if you don’t feel strong enough to face the challenge…

I made a lot of compromises for my relationships, and moving away from family and friends was one that I would not make again.

And: You cannot put your life/love/whatever into his hands! You are responsible for your actions and decisions, and have to take your own risks. He cannot promise you that it will work out…

You are ok and lovable just the way you are, with all your fears and worries! Don’t override them! <3