What Yue said! 😀

And wow to you for being so self reflective, for seeing what made you feel awful and taking responsibility and moving on and learning to be independent again! That’s really a tough lesson, and wow that you are taking it on!

I am very sure not all men are like this! I met wonderful men in my short lifetime, and I would trust them with my life!
Your gut tells you! And if it tells you confusion, it will be confusing! It is not your responsibility to figure out what issues someone has, or how you should read him.
Feel flattered and move on (unless you are into confusion! ;-))