I am sorry for the situation you are in. I always say no matter what to always go with your gut, when you are in a quiet place at home (maybe meditating) what does your heart say? It might be scary to admit to yourself that you need to end something since you do love that person very much but in loving someone it sometimes means letting them go for a bit. He sounds like he might not be as emotionally committed then you would like him to be. Since you stated before that he talked about your future together you are surprised by his actions, but you also stated you respect actions more than words. He might not say whether or not he wants this or that with you in the future but his actions should reflect his intentions.After having a conversation with him about how you have been feeling lately maybe you should consider taking a break or living separately for a while to see how much your feelings are substantial for one another concretely, I know this is a scary thought but I believe all relationships have a make or break point and maybe this is it for you and your boyfriend, Good Luck!

Love

Court