Take comfort in knowing you are not alone! I recently went through is. We knew each for a cew years but started dating six months ago. We fell in love and he treated me great, for the most part. Then he started being shady and disappearing and acting very disrespectful towards me for no reason. I tried several times to make it work, including making excuses for his behavior. But as the other poster said, you have to go with your gut. Its not easy, but trust me- you will get to the point where you have had enough. Ive learned that when someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM. This is who he is and he most likely will not change. But, as everyone had told me “get rid of him, you can do so much better” – i just wasnt ready. Only you will know when enough is enough. Remember- you DO deserve more than what he is giving you (emotionally) and everyone deserves to be treated with respect. My friend told me, “sometimes love is not enough” and she was right. Just because were in love, does not mean we were meant for each other. Hang in there, be true to yourself and good luck.