Get out now. He may be a Buddhist and he may be intelligent but that does not mean that he is right in all his decisions. It is very insensitive and demeaning of him to discuss you the way he did with this other woman. What bothers me most is that he does not consider you to be as intelligent as him. This is a huge warning sign. He does not consider you to be his equal and this will cause problems in your relationship down the line. Honor yourself. Trust your intuition- it is trying to tell you this is not right. You deserve more out of a loving relationship then to be with someone who would put his friendship with another woman before your emotional comfort. Take care of yourself! I wish you the very best!