christophermcd,

Thanks for the reply!

I certainly don’t see it as something to be ashamed of. It’s not that I don’t have the time to pursue a sex life, but that I feel like I’ve given up. I don’t feel like I suppress my sexual/romantic desires – but I do feel like they are beginning to wane.

I frankly don’t know what female interest actually looks like but I don’t think that I get it. Added to this, I study graduate math at a tech school which is a recipe for isolation from women. I am by no means passive, asocial, or sedentary. I tend to be the person that arranges outings, and introduces new people to my social circles. From the lack interest I drew that I was unlikely to have anyone interested in me seeing as I have been single for a bit less than two years now.

About a month ago, I thought about this and came to the conclusion that it is very likely that I’ll spend the rest of my life alone. With that in mind, I decided that if I were going to spend the rest of my life alone, I would still make it as excellent of one as possible. The loss of interest in relationships/sex came after this, and was followed by my increased intensity in other areas of my life.

Thanks again!