Thanks for your response Daffodil 🙂

I agree that I would have a hard time with regret if I don’t take the leap of faith.
Also, I think showing him that I am willing to go there for him is a huge testament to my faith in our relationship.
He was even extremely touched that I was the first to cross the ocean to visit him- he tells me all the time that it really made him feel special that I would travel that far for him.
I know that I can trust him to help me with the transition.
It’s scary to leave behind the stability and rely on him pretty much entirely- but who knows, I might be able to find a job there before I move so that I don’t feel as unproductive!!