Thanks Anita,

The trouble with Counseling is she doesnt use the “Tools” we are taught. Its almost like she goes just to see if someone will tell me Im wrong. Because we learn great tools! But Im the only one trying to use them. Go figure. We didnt learn about EAR, but I feel even if we did It wouldnt matter because she doesnt apply the new knowledge.

Both sides are to the point of no one wanting to work at it anymore but she wont leave me and Im not sure when I should walk away.